Monday, July 18, 2011

Is it bad to dress sexy?

I do not agree with most of the poster here I think that if you worked you butt of to look good there is nothing wrong with dressing sexy every now and then. I think your husbands security came from the fact that you carried more weight than might have been considered attractive to other men and now that you are feeling better about the weight loss and can wear sexy clothes he feels insecure. You had a baby not to long ago and it must feel good to know that those issues that made you feel ugly or unattractive like the weight are losing there power. I would let the hubby know that I love him and only him, but I will not pretend that I don't feel good about my weight loss and body image and that he should be proud of the effort you put into losing that weight. You said you don't dress that way at work which means you know there is a time and place for certain attire. Don't let his insecurity drive you crazy or damage your newly gained self esteem, wear super sexy things for him in the bedroom and semi sexy things when you go out but only on occasion.

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