Thursday, July 21, 2011

Is is safe to eat leftover food/soup left out on the stove overnight?

We cooked food last night it's a meaty soup kind of dish, and we forgot to put it in the fridge, is it still safe to eat the next day ?

Should I Dump Her? *no useless comments please*?

Hi well it was aparty game and name calling is common amongst those who are staid (nerds) and easy to label those who are free if u get my drift so why dump her,anyway what makes u think she wouldn't want to keep it going hmm? ♥

What are a Few Things About Yourself?

Build computers, can cook, play basketball and golf, hack, nice, not very confident, never had a girlfriend even though I get complimented for how I look a lot.

How to properly dress stitches?

Nurses & Doctors answers will differ. If I were you, cover it at work and air it out when you get home. I think you know what's best.

Don't you think Yahoo Answers shouldn't minus points for asking questions?

Don't you think they shouldn't minus your points just for asking a question? I mean, thats probably discouraging people from asking questions, and I thought everyone said asking questions is healthy! Teachers especially say this. I dont know, I just recently joined, and I was taken aback at how they decrease your number of points every time you ask a question. In my experience with other question/answer sites, if anything they rewarded you for asking a question. Does yahoo do this to prevent useless questions, or what? Whats your view on this?

Is my son gay? what should i do?

the other day i was browsing my computer and i noticed homosexual pornography in my browsing history, i was taken aback to say the least, i disregarded it, but just yesterday, i walked in on my son masturbating to an episode of GLEE. I'm a proud Texan that lives in a republican household with strong moral fiber, so i don't know what to do. We restricted his internet access and he is grounded for an indeterminable amount of time. My wife suggested bible school (pray away the gay), but im thinking military school, they will beat some sense into him. Please help me i'm at a loss.

What would cause this in a 91 Buick century?

the parking brake light came on while driving. (parking brake is off for sure) the speedometer went up to 70 then aback down then back up, (while going 40mph) the RPMs never went up when this happened.

Reporting serious problems at a psychiatric hospital...neglect and unsanitary conditions, lack of supervision?

you certainly should report them just dont expect mich to come of it. instead see it as something you diid was right and over time may be one of a pile of complaints that dont go ignored .

What should i do. Every tme i fall for someone my heart gets broken. I met this guy way back in september.?

He lives 6 hours away from me. Every night we would chat on line with webcam. He finallay came up April 16th and stayed over night then headed home. Since hes been up here he is acting different. He hardly texts me anymore either. I asked him last week are we togethe or not. Hes answer was I don't no.. Then today i looked aback on his facebook and here he toke me off as Mutual Friend. I have a feeling he is to scared to tell me it is over and that is why he toke me off. He nos i have been hurt to many times before an he said he had been hurt to. So what should i do or ask him. Very angry and Hurt Again. Help me please as soon as u can. Thanks

How do you respond to (older) women hitting on you; I don't know how?

Im 26 yrs old and this lady who is about to be 50 said that she likes me! I didnt know what to say either! I mean! I dont see my self with some1 24 yrs old than me!

Is he a player or is she a psycho? Or Neither? Does he like her or does she like him or both or neither? 10pts?

Based on your info no one could say for sure that he is a player or that she is a psycho. Only that they don't trust each other and had an argument.

Does my teacher dislike me?

I think he's falling for you but cannot trust himself. Because of this he becomes agitated around you. His inner desires are raging within him, almost ready to burst. Be careful, be very careful - you are playing with fire!

Is it a compliment if a guy friend asks you "why aren't you seeing anyone"?

I was a little taken aback and didn't know what to say at first, bc I'm single at the moment, but my friend thought that he said that bc he felt that I was worthy of a guy's time

How can I deal with a Bias teacher?

Why are you approaching him in front of the whole class? That's what office hours are for. Trying to use up class time or time right before or after to discuss a personal issue will get you yelled at by most professors for being inconsiderate. Engineering is a very quantitative field - if you got it right and it's marked wrong, you can prove it's right. So if your paper is marked down unfairly, that's very easy to prove, and if he doesn't correct it then you can take it to the dept head. But make sure you're right first. Minor mistakes do build up; it's not unjustified to take off points for that. Compare to other students to find out how the grading worked - usually it's pretty straight-forward.

Can left over dish-washer detergent affect a pregnancy test?

Can a clean cup that might contain dishwasher detergent or anything affect a pregnancy test? Or the hgc?

How do i tell my boyfriends dad to not watch porn?

i practicaly live with my boyfriend and i went on the comp one day n checked the history ( i know i shouldnt) i saw loads of porn sites and i was gettin angry coz i thought it was my boyfriend but i checked the times and we were out every time it happened, i love his mum as if she were my own and i dont want him to watch porn... it makes me feel sick, i also dont want my boyfriend to watch porn coz his dad does sort ov thing.(he dosent though) but yeah i went to chek the history yesterday and it was deleted, im ok with comps so i checked the cookies to see the sites he went on, there were loads over 20 . . . i also noticed he had accounts with 2 sites where you can talk to other sl uh ts and stuff, i just hate it, it discusts me, and i dont think its fair.. id want to know if it was happening to me. . . so .... What Do I Do ?????? help xxxxxxxx

Old friends started talking again. i like him..a lot..?

Hey. Me and this guy stopped talking for 2 years. When we were friends we liked eachother. Well now we are talking again and getting to know eachother. I like him a lot. The first day we started talking his ex added me on Facebook and that same min he texted me saying she's creeping on you because she is jealous and saw us texting. Why would she be jealous unless he said something? Does he likd me? I'm so confused.. How do I get him to feel that same way about me.. What should I do? Help?! Any advice. Ill take it and ill return the favor. :) thanks SL much. Btw if it helps I told him what happened with my ex and he said so your single now? And we both are. Idk if that means anything.

Can I put a Honda radiator in a saturn sl 2?

I used to have a saturn SL2. no u cant put a honda radiatior in it,they are 2 entirely different cars

Good diet and workout?

Buy Insanity. It will give you an excellent and hard workout(cardio). It also gives you meal plans and a schedule. Go to the pool whenever you can while you do this.

I find it strange how my fiancee has a newfound love for his father?

I never thought of my other half to be a family man. I fact he doesn't even like his mother. Recently, he's been spending a lot more time with his father. I've found that he treats his father better than me. When he's at home he cooks for his father, he cleans his dad's dishes, and recently his father has not been feeling well. It's not even that serious and the doctors are going to have a very minor operation on his leg and I mean, when I was ill he didn't even give me flowers or a card or anything. Maybe I am a little jealous but still, I'm supposed to be marrying him soon and if he's going to act like this when he's married to me I don't know if I want to be together anymore. Any suggestions?

Do I need cable or Direct TV to use a DVR or TiVo?

I have only an outdoor antenna, no cable or dish. I will be getting a new HDTV. I would like to be able to set a DVR to record programs while I am away for an evening or a few days. I have been using my VCR, but don't think I will be able to record that way after Feb.

Is he unhappy with his marriage?

I was talking to a married man that I know fairly well the other day. He just got off the phone with his wife,sighed and turned to me and told me never to get married.He started listing all the bad things about marriage.He said it a little jokingly but he listed A LOT of things.Do you think he may be slightly unhappy in his marriage?He wasn't arguing with his wife on the phone as I heard the conversation .Just to be clear,I am not asking this question cause I want him I was just rather taken aback by it and I'm curious to what others think.

He told me twice that he still likes me but when I told him I still like him too he blew me off? Why? 10pts?

Sounds like he still likes you but that the communication lines got a bit crossed. If you are still interested I would approach him again but clearly communicate what you want out of a relationship. If you are over it, then you have done well to work it out with him and apologize, and now be friendly but move on with your relationships.

Would you be angry if your boyfriend invested his money in a pot farm?

I've been dating this guy for the past few months and he happens to be older than me (I'm 22, he's 38). Recently, he got us a motel for the night and when I tried to pitch in, he told me it was okay since the money was "dirty." I didn't know what he meant by that, so he explained that he recently lent his friend $3000 for a pot farm he was growing. The comment kind of took me off guard since my boyfirend used to be a former cop and always mentioning the importance of good morals and making the right judgment calls, so the comment seemed rather out-of-place and took me aback. I guess I found this to be rather hypocritical of him. He asked if I was disappointed in him and I told him Yes, so then he tried to explain himself by stating that he didn't understand why I was so angry since he made back all of his money plus more on his "investment" -- which made me feel like he missed the point of why I was so angry in the first place. He apologized while grinning, and when I questioned him about the grin, he said it was 'cause I was so beautiful and then he tried to kiss me, but I pulled away. He often use to tell me that I was one of the few good people he knew, so now I'm wondering if he's putting on a mask when he's around me so his true colors won't leak out. I hate to think that about him, but I can't help it. What got me even more angry was that when I got home, he texted me that the pot farm story was all a joke, which if you were listening to him describe everything, you would know that he wasn't kidding at all. I felt like he was insulting my intelligence. Sure, I'm younger than him, but it makes wonder who exactly is this man that I'm dating. Am I justified in my reaction or did I overreact?

How do Sagittarius get people to take them seriously?

I am a Sagittarius and I have no problem getting people to take me serious,as I am a serious person,as well as jovial when I am in the mood and just having a silly day of it,but I really do not like the jokesters of life,as I don't find much a joke. I do not tolerate anybody treating me badly and one way or another anyone doing so will learn quickly that is wrong and get lost. Not because I would get physical with them,no not at all I am not that type never was nor will I ever be,but I can and will make my point,crystal clear. Just be who you are,those who are good to you,kind,and respect you and your feelings you treat them with the same kindness and respect,anything less well good bye is all. Don't focus on it all so much sincerely,go with the flow of life deal as it comes,other wise you will just be stressing all the time,relax,be happy,do what makes you happy and be the best you can be,as that is all anyone can really do,life's no cake walk as we know,roll with the punches so to speak,and punch back when you need to,not literally of coarse,and if someone cannot take you seriously when you are,you are talking to the wrong people,walk away,until they learn respect or you simple have no time to waste on them.

What is your opinion?

My brother is in jail because he had s*x with a 14 year old while he was 17. He broke up with the girl to avoid being sentenced in court. They agreed to stay friends but he was dating this other girl and about a month later he was engaged to that other girl. The first girl got mad and revealed to the police that they had s*x. The police took him in and he has been there for 1 year already. Anyone who has met or known this girl should know that she is a sl**(excuse my language)she is even pregnant now and has been letting her parents deal with the lawsuit while she goes and does what she does best(I think you can guess what that is)my brothers fianc�e has left him now because of the situation he's in. she has an ex-boyfriend that has been abusing her and keeps doing that now because my brother used to protect her from him but hes in jail now. Do you think he deserves to be where he's at or do you think the girl that put him in this position should receive some kind of punishment for her reckless self?(thank you all that have actually read and answered this in a Polite way but with also sharing your true opinions)

Multicultural food dishes?

What are some INDIVIDUAL food dishes that have multiple cultures' influences? for example, perhaps a dish with asian and italian influences all in the same dish. Thanks for your input :)

Do I have OCD? Please help it's affecting my life!?

I can't use other peoples dishes at their house because I feel lyk they are dirty. I'm constantly washing my hands because if I don't then I won't do anything until I do. The thought of using a dirty dish or eating while my hands aren't washed gives me the heebie-jeebies. I have to rewash all dishes I use and I have to clean everything that I touch.

Why guys are so interested in fair girls?

I know a guy, whom i liked a lot because he was nice and good but then one day he told me the kind of girl he wanted...he literally said "white". I was taken aback by his statement! He is US, an indian guy....he too is fair. I just wanted to hit him hard on his face. He wants only an "indian girl" and wont get involved with a girl from US but that indian girl should be "WHITE"! I am olive skinned with dark eyes and dark hair. I dunno if i am pretty or not but he did once like me as he once said but then everything ended and then we were once talking normally when he just said this. Its not just him but even other guys i know, though they like me but none would like a dark woman! CMON! "WHITE".....Y DO U GUYS RUN AFTER FAIR SKINNED GIRLS! He said he likes my classmate, she's fair. He only saw her pic n told me i juz wanna give it a try, if it dsn work... no prbs! WTH! That racist! COMMON GUYS! temme the truth, u dont care if a girl is nice or beautiful, all u care about is if she's milky white with pink cheeks or not haan???? I am now all single, foreva because i dont think all guys are same! RACISTS!

Girlfriend's ex coming?

Well, maybe she feels bad because he obviously spent a ton of money to come see her, probably still has feelings for her, and she doesn't want to break his heart and make him think he totally wasted his money? I doubt she'll try anything with him, she probably just doesn't want to offend him since he went through all the trouble to come to see her. I don't know, I would say just do what she wants, see what happens. You're just going to have to ride this one out, I think...

Was this a social blunder on my part?

Well if you couldn't eat it, you should've suggested an alternate getaway for your friend to celebrate her birthday. It is certainly a little rude to not eat anything at a party, but I guess you couldn't really help it. Don't worry, your friends will come round' just try a talk with them.

Do you think she likes me?

I take tutoring. I am really tight with a teacher there and she is really good to me.( not my crush LOL) i first saw my crush in lobby of the tutoring place.. We exchanged looks and smiles but couldnt talk because i was already almlst late for class.. I later found out that she was the neice of the teacher i know. The teacher came by to pick me up for church oneday and was surprised to see my crush (and teacher's daughter)there waiting. We sat together in the car and we drove off to church.. Thats when i knew she was really shy.. I dont think the's normally shy because she one of those girls who like to communicate via facebook texting and whatnot. Also likes to shop :P. So we sit together in the sermon but really dont strike up a conversation. I ask her about what classes he's taking, how long she's been at dallas but she just answers my question with fewest words as possible lol.. After sermon ppl break up into groups where we talk abou the sermon. Durin prayer, she would look up at me and when i saw her, she would twitch her head bak down like she never did(so cute haha).. The next day, i tell her hi with a smile and she looks as if shes taken aback and quickly says hi back. Yesterdy, the teacher's daughter, her guy friend and my crush were supposed to go to a movie together but my crush didnt want to go. I visited their house to borrow interne and said that i wante to go and persuaded her to go too, without effort she accepted :) . Te ride there, she was acting even weirder than usual.. She would show everyone pics of food and ask questions like "why are theree lines on the road?" lol!! She wouldnt even look at me siring the rode and ony look at her phone texting. It seemed like she was suddenly not intereted in me, not walking next to me, talking to me or even acknowledging me. because lately she seemed so distant (and also there were others) i couldnt even strike up move. How ask her out? She like me? Thanks guys

Why are there so many calories in Noahs Bagel's city salad?

810 calories and 68 g of fat. I slightly taken aback that there were 612.0 calories from fat in such a simple salad (containing Mixed greens, raspberry vinaigrette dressing, sugared walnuts, gorgonzola cheese) Did most of the fat come from the walnuts? (I'd say there was less than 1/3 of a cup)

I've never had a boyfriend but...?

Several people at my school call me a "slut" and a "skank." I don't know why since I've never even had a boyfriend. I asked one of my friends why people would call me this, and she said "Well is cause you're gorgeous, popular and I'm pretty sure a lot of guys like you. Those girls are just jealous and it makes them feel better." Even if what she said is true it's hard to convince people that your not a sl*t or whatever, and I don't want people just going around thinking this about me. I don't know why these girls would think that or say that. I don't have a boyfriend, no guys have ever asked me out and I never did anything to hurt these girls, I don't even know them. I hear from my friends that some guys they know really like me and those guys act kinda shy around me (even though they're normally out-going) but does that really justify calling me these harsh names?

How do I make my recordings on my Dish Network DVR in a profile with my name?

My friend has his DVR hooked up to him and his sister's tv. They have their recordings under their own name. I was wondering how to make my recordings automatically go in a profile with my name. And how do I make a profile with my name?

Why are Americans incapable is seeing that Capitalism is evil?

Capitalism is evil in it's purest form, but most countries have a mix of capitalism and socialism (for example minimum wage, social security, health care, etc), but not pure capitalist nation exist in the world.

Men and women, is this man worth it?

no he is not and no, this is not normal. i mean even name calling would be better to what he is telling u. i think he is not nice person and yes, i agree, u re driving him totally mad with anger and he wants to hurt u the most at that moment. do u really want to be with a man who hates your guts?

This kid is like in love with me and I don't want him to!!?

Tell him. If he misinterprets your signals and finally finds out you're not interested in him, it's gonna hit him hard.

Obesity's Relation to Temperature Preference?

It really depends on the person and their health issues. For example i get really freaking cold fast always have and i have always been a thick girl.

True Christian Warriors, why doesn't anyone like me or wants to date me?

I am an Evangelical Dominionist Christian woman awaiting Rapture, I am saving my virginity for Jesus and just want a nice man to buy me dinner and sparkly jewelry. I am a true Christian Princess and want what is best for my soul. I know most of you are not going to get into heaven, so I don't want to get deeply involved in a relationship that goes nowhere. I dislike dogs and other soulless creatures because they are lower life forms and the Bible tells me so. I hate shrimp, lobster and crab but overcompensate by automatically ordering the most expensive item on the menu (when on a date) no matter if I like the dish or not, because I deserve the best. I am a good person and have a great sense of humor. I have a very strong sense of right and wrong and don't need to be told about the virtues of diversity. I had a few friends at church but they turned out to be materialistic, self-righteous sinners. How can I improve my chances of getting a dinner date?

Who on hear wears rubber gloves for washes dishes?

No, by the time you have found them and put them on you could have done the washing up twice over lol xx

Wednesday, July 20, 2011

Im 17 and im pregnant im scared and i have no money help?

I recently found out im pregnant. Im 17 years old. Im not a sl*g as some off you might think, i've been with my boyfriend for three years but this wasn't a planned pregnancy. I was on the pill and we used condoms too, but i still fell pregnant. I'm so scared. I currently do not have a job, and my boyfriend is still in full time education (his also 17 in sixth form) so we have no income. I do not want to get rid off my baby because i do not believe in abortion as my personal opinion, but i feel like i have no choice, my family aren't the richest and wont be able to help alot, so i feel it will be very unfair to bring a child in to a life where every day will be a struggle. What kind off help am i in-tilted to? will i get enough money for my baby to get everything they need? I don't want to give up my baby but i can't get rid, i wanted to have a baby when i had a house, a stable job and married, but now i don't know what to do. Please help ? x

Why are Americans incapable is seeing that Capitalism is evil?

Capitalism, and its advocates, have so far succeeded in producing a feasible myth that socialism is 'evil'. It is no surprise that it has worked so well, in fact, as it has managed to put all under the illusion that they can prosper and live a good life under capitalism - whilst some can, I admit, it's no fallacy to say that the majority of people in this world do not prosper, and it is only the rich oligarchs that continue to prosper and manipulate the hard-working people.

How can i remove the color from my hair?

A few hours ago i dyed my hair with cherry kool aid i really don't like the color, and i want to remove it. I've already tried; vinegar, dish soap, olive oil, and dandruff shampoo. I need an easy way to remove the color without bleaching or dyeing my hair.

Is it a compliment if a guy friend asks you "why aren't you seeing anyone"?

I was a little taken aback and didn't know what to say at first, bc I'm single at the moment, but my friend thought that he said that bc he felt that I was worthy of a guy's time

I find it strange how my fiancee has a newfound love for his father?

I never thought of my other half to be a family man. I fact he doesn't even like his mother. Recently, he's been spending a lot more time with his father. I've found that he treats his father better than me. When he's at home he cooks for his father, he cleans his dad's dishes, and recently his father has not been feeling well. It's not even that serious and the doctors are going to have a very minor operation on his leg and I mean, when I was ill he didn't even give me flowers or a card or anything. Maybe I am a little jealous but still, I'm supposed to be marrying him soon and if he's going to act like this when he's married to me I don't know if I want to be together anymore. Any suggestions?

Is this too much for a 14 year old girl?

Quite honestly, you sound like a slave. Do your chores...that should be expected, but don't let your mom trick you into thinking that serving her breakfast in bed, giving her massages and cooking dinner is a chore. Those are extras that she's soaking you for and you should be paid accordingly. Some of these things shouldn't count as energy consuming. Like getting dressed for example, it's effortless, same as making yourself food, it needs to be done to keep yourself alive. Once you cut the extras out(catering to your mom) then these self preservation acts will seem a lot less demanding. I know going to a private school can be costly, but that doesn't mean you need to be a slave. I'm interested in knowing if it was your choice to go there or your mom's...sounds like she may be using it against you if it was her idea.

I need help with what to do about my girl friend?

Okay so i was at a Military camp for one week last week. No phone no computer. No contact with my girl friend. So i get back and everything is fine and normal until last night i ask her if she hung out with any guys and shes goes "yeah i had a bagel with a friend" and i say "who?" And she says this guys name that she had a thing with and did stuff with before me and her started dating 5 months ago.. So i was just kinda like umm what the hell? then today we are talking about it and i ask her if they hung out after he picked her up (it was just the two of them) and she said yeah he watched me do the dishes and then left and i was like okay... well anything else you want to add on to the story? and she says we watched tv for a hour or so and talked and cought up on things. I feel really weird about it. she has been saying sorry and **** all day and crying her eyes out. What should i do??

Have we waited too long?

My fiance and I have been together 7 years, engaged for 4. Is that too long of an engagement? We don't plan on getting married until 2012-2013, making us together for 8 years engaged for 5. A lot of people freak out about the fact we haven't gotten married yet. We can't get married, because we can't afford health insurance and we're both getting our Masters, so we stay on our parents health insurance as long as we can. Some people might think this is a rational normal thing to do, but we have made a promise to ourselves that we would save ourselves for marriage so we're not intimate in THAT way, which also tends to take our family and friends aback. Have we waited too long and have moved into the friend zone? We don't believe in kissing or anything before marriage and I'm just now wondering if we kinda shot ourselves in the foot for putting it off so long and making a promise of chastity to ourselves. I love him, I find myself attracted to him, but the thought of sex (not with him alone, with ANYONE) is nauseating to me. I feel as though now my family and friends are gonna know we're having sex and I don't want anyone to ever think I do that, because I see it as something dirty (not because of religious reasons). What is wrong with me? Has waiting turned me into a prude? I used to want to do it all the time, and my fiance still wants to do it. I just don't feel the way about sex I used to. It repulses me now. I feel as though another person invading your body is not sensual or romantic it is beastly and gross. I'm just overall confused about us in general.

Summer jobs for 13 year olds to earn some money?

I'm not sure if you could legally get a job. But try starting your own small business based on your interests, there is a market for everything.

My mom hates everything I do?

If what you say is really true, then you should speak to a social worker. Talking to your own child like that is called child abuse, even if she doesn't hit you. She sounds like she is kind of jealous of you? I don't know.

Would you let your 14 year old..?

Not at 14. I have one and my daughter will not be allowed to get one until 16 at the earliest (and she would have to pay for it herself) I didn't get any piercings or tattoos done until I was in my 20's. I don't believe piercings/tattoos make a person slutty just the way they act.

Is sweet popcorn unpopular in the US?

No, the term "sweet popcorn" is not what we use in America. It is either regular popcorn, or kettle corn. There is also caramel corn, which is similar. If your customers are taken aback, and unsure, then you might want to clarify that sweet popcorn is kettle corn.

Guys: why would you tell a girl about how you're never going near your ex again?

hes still not completely over her. he still has feeling for her. they may be negative feelings but it shows shes still in his mind somewhere. i feel no type of care or concern for any of my ex's, even if they did cheat on me or w/e, i just dont care anymore b/c im over them. no feelings (good or bad) for them at all anymore

Is it rude to expect a woman to pay on a date?

I agree with d. He probably is broke now because of his new car and bought a thousand other things for himself. I would of told him that no betting because he couldnt pay if he had no cash left. I mean, you could of beat him and then he'd be up the creek with no paddle. He's goofy to say the least. Forget him. I once went out with a guy that "forgot" his cash, we had free tickets to a sporting event, so he was in the clear for that but as soon as we went out afterwards I found out he had forgotten his wallet and had to ask a friend to borrow so he could buy me a drink. All because he was busy all day and didnt even dress a little nicer to impress me. Do you think I stayed? NO, I didnt...............I drove myself to meet him so I left, politely, but left. I dont put up with any bs. And what you went through is pure bs. Wipe your slate clean and let this dbag go.

Should I be worried about this or do you think it'll pass...? Does he feel emasculated?

Okay well my husband and I got into a fight about sex and how I feel he mocks me when he calls me pretty during (I'm insecure, he knows this!) and he's never really aggressive and then he proceeds to tell me that it frustrates him when I don't allow him to let me "get off" because sometimes it's too intense and i can't take it and he called me crazy and paranoid and suggested that I 'speak' to sometimes about my many issues. Well later last week we had intercourse but he was kinda aggressive and I liked it but now i'm kinda worried about where this is leading. He performed oral sex on me but when I told him to stop he kept going and held on to me legs tight when I tried to move backwards and it felt sooooo amazing but his behavior was very unlike him and I liked it but i'm a little concerned about where this may take up in the future and when I was kinda over it he kinda said in a crudely to suck him and i was taken aback by this because he's usually so nice when he asks and then i took a shower and we went to bed but we haven't discussed it and he's now acting normally but we have done anything since... have I messed up and gotten myself into something or do you think it was a late reaction or something?

Why is he being a jerk?

Ignore him hes not worth it and hes extremely immature. Guys who cant front up and tell you whats going on are weak and unattractive, you really dont need that :) You will find someone better :)

Am i within my rights morally and legally? baby/dad?

when somebody is that abusive it doesnt matter who it is towards. if he would do it to a woman then he would have no problem doing it to a baby

Speeding Fine and Careless Driving in UK with Irish License driving company vehicle?

I believe that the countries within the EC can endorse licenses for each other, so points will be put on your license , regarding the careless driving I would consult a lawyer, don't just leave it or you could return to Ireland to find your banned.

Wedding dress from Goodwill?

Ok, I am slowly gathering things for my wedding and thought to go to Goodwill because glassware (candy dishes) are cheaper. I happen to pass the formal section and there it was...the dress of my dreams, and in my size! I paid $50 for it and came home to google the actual price which was $1100 give or take depending on what store it is bought from. MY QUESTION IS....where do I tell people I got my dress from if they ask. Most people would cringe at the idea of buying a wedding dress at goodwill......but honestly .....i couldn't resist! My bank account thanks me :) oh yeah...and the professional cleaning tag was still attached :)

How would you respond or react when someone calls you a racial slur without getting physical or being a coward?

call them a racial slur back, only cowards get physical cuz someone said a word, u have no right to touch anyone, its there right to say whatever they want. either ignore them or call them a racial slur back. if hes black call him n word, if hes white call him butter looking welfare trash, if hes hispanic call him illegal immigrant, if they are middle eastern or india call them binladin. if they are chiniese say i feel sorry your da only race with wierd eyes and nose no wonder ppl dont like you. every race has something that they can be offended.

Maid issue. please help! really need honest advice?

She has a contract, but she is not seemingly following through with it at her end, being wasteful and not doing as she is told. I would talk with the agency about her performance, surely, if she is not doing her job, that would let you out of the obligation to keep her.

Hate it when people can't read your name?

i'm okay if somebody can't read my name, it means that my name's special, but it's as long as he/she doesn't change my name into some kind of joke.

Can spilled soap on wood create mold?

I went under my kitchen sink today to grab the liquid dish soap only to find that it had tipped over and spilled onto the floorboards. I did my best to clean it up but the majority of it was fairly soaked into the wood. I don't know when it happened and it's been really warm due to the A/C being out for awhile.

I dont know what to do with my life?

there's a reason why certain things happen. everybody has their own problem, it's a simple reality that life is difficult but don't be discourage. all that matter is How you handle your situation. Cheer up

Great vegetarian meal for a guy?

ok, so im seeing this guy and he is a vegetarian, i am a chef actually but vegetarianism is like out or this world for me, i want a to cook him a meal that will be awesome i do have tons of side dishes ideas, salads, etc but really what does a vegetarian eats as a main dish that its delicious and fulfilling, this is hard for me since my culture does not embrace vegetarianism at all so i dont know what to do please i want something more exciting than pasta, so please vegetarians our there give me ideas

Is it weird that I go to the movies alone?

I do it all the time, but when I mentioned it to some people, they seemed taken aback by it. What's so weird about it? I like getting theater popcorn and seeing the movie on a big screen.

Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Was i wrong to feel that way?

i have a "friend" whom i text and call a lot (pretty much everyday) and one day we were texting and he didnt respond so i asked him if i should leave him alone to let him do whatever he was doing or not, and then he replied "i don't really care if u text me or not @ this moment" and it kind of hurt me. i just replied , "OK ill leave u alone :3" then he said back "alright" and i said bye and he replied back to me the same. now... was i wrong to feel a little hurt by his reply? i mean he was in a hurry at the moment i know that but still... i think maybe im being a little too sensitive but it did take me aback for a second because hes usually trying to do the opposite of hurt me.

What do you need to have or do to have a wifi router and make it work?

do you have to notify your internet provider (suddenlink, dish network etc.) just tell me everything i need to know

What do you say when your religious debate opponent says that you can't prove God doesn't exist?

I know its a completely stupid argument but they still make it and I was taken aback at their stupidity. Any smart comebacks to shut them up?

Girlfriend's ex coming?

Well, maybe she feels bad because he obviously spent a ton of money to come see her, probably still has feelings for her, and she doesn't want to break his heart and make him think he totally wasted his money? I doubt she'll try anything with him, she probably just doesn't want to offend him since he went through all the trouble to come to see her. I don't know, I would say just do what she wants, see what happens. You're just going to have to ride this one out, I think...

Marriage problems about sex... opinions please?

No offense but you sound prudish and boring. Men live spontaneity in the bedroom. Men are physically and visually stimulated. Honestly it's your husband. Why not have fun with him?! He's not some stranger. Live a litte jeez. Sadly this is why men cheat on their spouses.

What would you do if your heard your child say the seven words you can never say on television?

My 5-year-old son isn't allowed to say any bad words. The only one of the seven words my 15-year-old daughter is allowed to say is p�ss but she's allowed to say other bad words like slut, whore, retarded (as long as it means slowed down or delayed which is using the word properly), f�gg�t, and gay as an expletive.

He's got a 5 yr old daughter?

A man who is interested in, and takes care of a child that was a result of a one night stand is a good guy. See him again if you like him. And you would have YOUR first child together, just not his.

What provider is the best for Internet,Phonecalling, and TV?

Recently, we got Clear because my Dad was convinced it was amazing. But Clear is just working terrible sometimes it'll go fast and sometimes it'll just go slowly. Too many outages. So i've been telling him to switch to Comcast because it work excellent for us before we switched. But I'd like to know if there's anyother Provider that's better. So we're thinking of switching to Comcast again. But we have Dish for TV and it's getting to costly. So we are wondering if they're is any good but affordable company for Internet, Phone-calling, and Tv

Why do autistic children approach strangers so openly, and why do they randomly hit others?

To be very honest, I don't know much about autism, and was hoping to be enlightened. I was at a park today, reading a book, minding my own when an autistic child ( about 13 yrs old) walked up to me and started rubbing my arm. I was kind of taken aback, as one might imagine. He seemed friendly enough, and all of a sudden BAM! --he punches be square in the eye, knocking off my glasses. His mother who was probably 20 yards away ran up, said a simple "sorry" and walked off dragging the child by the arm. What causes autistic children to openly approach strangers, and why do they perform random acts of....blatant violence? ( I'm sure they don't mean to be, just curious) Answer this and get my "best question" vote!

My date got flustered when I kissed her on the forehead. Should I move on?

There's nothing wrong with a forehead kiss at all so don't worry about that. It's romantic and it's how my ex girlfriend and I kissed on the lips (it led to the lips that as I kissed down her face). I just think she wants to wait a little while- no reason to give up unless you feel like she's not interested. If she still wants to go out again then she likes you, she just doesn't want to move too fast. I know it can be frustrating but everyone is different. Good luck.

Is this conversation awkward or does it sound natural?

I think it sounds pretty natural. I can definitely get the feeling you're trying to portray through the passage.

Opinions/experiences with Dish Tv?

I am thinking of switching from Time warner cable to Dish, but I want to know if I would be making a huge mistake first. What are your opinions/ experiences with Dish tv? Also, does anybody have the americas top 120 package with dvr? What does the end price end up being, bc it won't tell me unless I put all my bank info in first and I don't trust that. Any hidden fee's you won't see until you end up with the bill?

TEENS: I need help with a certain someone?

So Im kinda new in school and I have this huge crush on this boy for the longest,every since I came to the school which was 3 months ago. I made it very clear that I liked him every time I was near him,and I actually thought that he liked me to. So schoo'sl out for the summer(obviously) and Im in summer school with him,were not together sadly. I really wanted to make him mine, but today we were all in a little group in the hallway just chillin with 2 of my friends and him and his friend. Then all of the suddenly this girl comes over and starts to chill with us,I had no idea who she was but apparently everyone else did. She sat right next to my crush ,than all of the suddenly they start flirting BIG TIME. I was so upset.&then after school she came back to where we were and started to flirt with him again,and what made me made is than he was doing it to.They were hugging eachother,while his hands around her waist. I even saw them holding hands. You don't know how upset I was,of course I didn't show it but I was tearing apart inside. I just put a smile on my face as if I wasn't looking at them. I recently found out that,that was his 2times ex girlfriend,& that they might get back together. do you think I could still have a chance with him?

A MILF woman added me on facebook?

she is looking for victims and is a potentially verus approach. Block and delete as soon as possible

I am 13 and i really want a boyfriend but cant seem to get one!?

I am a mixed complection (mom's black, dad's white) and i have some pimples on my forehead. You cant really notice them though.I always get embarrased when everyone is talking about acne, periods, and boobs because i have some acne, havent had my period (even though i weigh 105 lbs), and i have small boobs (32a).my mom also doesnt want me to wear a padded bra because she thinks it makes my boobs look to big but it doesnt and i feel like a baby wearing a non-padded bra because all of the girls at my school wear padded bras. i think these are the reasons why i dont have a boyfriend. there is this one person at school though that i really like and i really want to get his attention. its summer vacation and when i go back to school (will be in 8th grade) i really want to be a girl that all the guys like. i really dont care what i have to do just to get a boyfriend. i just am really desperate. i dont care if i have to b a sl ut or whatever. and 1 more thing, when you get your period do your boobs get bigger cuz i have heard that and i have taken those period quizes and all of them say that i wil get my period in 1 month. (please no answers like: you are to young and stuff)

Boyfriend troubles! am i being totally ridiculous or is he?!?

His actions while he was ill or thought he was ill were perfectly normal. His actions when you told him YOUR problems were ALSO perfectly normal...for a callous git. The question isn't whether you are being ridiculous or whether HE is being ridiculous. YOU are being ridiculous. But you are being ridiculous because I assume you are still together. If you actually meant your EX boyfriend, then good show. And he's still a callous git in any case. And a git is a prat...wanker...idiot...in case you're unfamiliar with the term. At 17, you're FAR too young to be tied down/attached to what we might refer to as a...non-caring loser...or selfish loser...or idiotic loser...choose which ever term you feel most appropriate. But don't forget the "loser". Sorry if this sounds harsh, but seeing girls staying with guys who treat them like dirt (for whatever reason they do this) makes me a wee bit angry. And while this may be a one-off occurrence, the problem is this: Someone who hits you once will likely hit you again. Someone who mistreats you will likely do THAT again. Perhaps when he sees that you're angry he will straighten up and fly right. Perhaps not. Perhaps he will "put himself in your shoes". Perhaps not. But for the moment he sounds like a right git and a right loser. Sorry if you think I've over-used the terms "git" and "loser" in reference to your boyfriend or EX boyfriend, but I feel it appropriate in this case. "Also, while i was taking care of him i also had bronchitis and a flu bug i'd been trying to get over. He never took care of me, or even cared to ask how i was feeling." I think the KEY is in the statement "or even CARED (emphasis mine) to ask". Things may work out and he may "change his tune". But perhaps not. But for the moment, he sounds like a loserly git. It may be best to move forward rather than stay in the same place. He sounds somewhat (and by "somewhat" I mean "extremely") selfish and self-absorbed (redundant, I realise, but I'm trying to stress this point). What you ultimately do is up to you...but unless there is a slight (and by "slight" I mean "tremendous") change in his actions and attitude...you can likely guess what my advice would be.

Good baby shower food?

my baby shower is in just 4 short weeks and the hosts have requested a list of the foods id like present. the shower is at 5pm on a sat. i already know i want fried chicken(little place down the street has ammmmmazing fried chicken) but im not sure about side dishes? any ideas???

I need help with what to do about my girl friend?

Okay so i was at a Military camp for one week last week. No phone no computer. No contact with my girl friend. So i get back and everything is fine and normal until last night i ask her if she hung out with any guys and shes goes "yeah i had a bagel with a friend" and i say "who?" And she says this guys name that she had a thing with and did stuff with before me and her started dating 5 months ago.. So i was just kinda like umm what the hell? then today we are talking about it and i ask her if they hung out after he picked her up (it was just the two of them) and she said yeah he watched me do the dishes and then left and i was like okay... well anything else you want to add on to the story? and she says we watched tv for a hour or so and talked and cought up on things. I feel really weird about it. she has been saying sorry and **** all day and crying her eyes out. What should i do?? She said nothing happend so what should i do? She is telling me she loves me and would never do something like that

What would be a good sized cage for a family of 4 parakeets?

I have two right now, but plan on getting more. The cage that i have now is 18''x18''x24'', but i know that isn't big enough for 4 birds, their toys and food dishes, etc. So, where can i get a much bigger cage, but not pay an arm and a leg for it? I need to buy on by this weekend because that's when i plan on getting my other two birds. please help!

Fuse location for 95 3000GT SL?

Both my fog lights have gone out, and I can't seem to find which fuse goes to the fog lights. As the diagram isn't clear. Both the bulbs are after market HID replacements. Any and all tips would be helpful.

Is he unhappy in his marriage?

I was talking to a married man that I know fairly well the other day. He just got off the phone with his wife and turned to me and told me never to get married.He started listing all the bad things about marriage.He said it a little jokingly but he listed A LOT of things.Do you think he may be slightly unhappy in his marriage.Just to be clear,I am not asking this question cause I want him I was just rather taken aback by it and I'm curious to what others think.

Red flags on first day of new job?

He will put you in a major state of depression after a while which will turn into anxiety and then an ulster I went through the same scenario once, girl if you can run then run for your life if not talk to the people there who worked for this guy and ask a few question, remember when they are like that you never get a promotion, never a raise or anything they are dead end. Sorry to say but its from my exp.

What are a Few Things About Yourself?

Well you seem like a cool person to be around with. And i would like to write some things about me, but i just go on and on & on. Lol..

Why would a teacher respond so irritated?

She may have felt pressured that there was not enough time to answer your question and get through other material. Or if it appeared that you were not paying attention and then needed help because of it, she may have been frustrated with having to go through it again unnecessarily. Another possibility is that she was just having a bad day. Teachers are people too, you know! If this was an ongoing thing I would have different advice, but because it seems to be a one time event I would say that if you are really worried about it, ask her about it before or after class. Otherwise, I wouldn't worry about it too much.

Any recipes for cold left over salmon?

Cold salmon is great in a nice green salad. Also you could make salmon sandwiches..add a bit of dill, mayo salt and pepper!

Monday, July 18, 2011

Is it bad to dress sexy?

I do not agree with most of the poster here I think that if you worked you butt of to look good there is nothing wrong with dressing sexy every now and then. I think your husbands security came from the fact that you carried more weight than might have been considered attractive to other men and now that you are feeling better about the weight loss and can wear sexy clothes he feels insecure. You had a baby not to long ago and it must feel good to know that those issues that made you feel ugly or unattractive like the weight are losing there power. I would let the hubby know that I love him and only him, but I will not pretend that I don't feel good about my weight loss and body image and that he should be proud of the effort you put into losing that weight. You said you don't dress that way at work which means you know there is a time and place for certain attire. Don't let his insecurity drive you crazy or damage your newly gained self esteem, wear super sexy things for him in the bedroom and semi sexy things when you go out but only on occasion.

I'm finding it hard to trust my own good friends nowadays?

im always there for my friends when they need me, when theyre going through their own emotional problems and sh*t. always extending a listening ear and lending a shoulder to cry on. but when it comes to mine they just dont listen. they always revert my situation back to theirs. just yesterday i was there for a friend who was going through a breakup. i helped him through while he was crying and everything and suddenly he turned against me saying that i dont understand what its like to go through this bcos my ex didnt reciprocate my feelings. in my mind i was like "what did you just say?!?!" this was a VERY touchy subject. my ex was the one who actually sent me into depression and our story was very complicated. and just bcos i didnt ramble on about it doesnt mean you can make assumptions like that. even the rest of our friends there were quite taken aback. what possesses people that you trust and know for so long to do things like this, i dont understand?

Am i out of the line, or are they? ?

I recently just moved in with my brother and his girlfriend, bcuz my boyfriend was mistreating me. Anyway I have lived with them before, they are charging me rent $300/mo. Including $25 a week for food. Which is fine, but my brothers girlfriend is always ***** at me about stupid stuff allllll the time it is very annoying! Like for example one night she had asked me when I got home from work to wash off my plate and put it in the dishwasher and start it, I said ok. Well, I got home and she was sitting on the couch I said hi and she just ignored me, I finished eating and went to put my dish in the washer but there was no room so I figure I would just wash it myself put it away and start it no biggie. Well she asked my what I was doing I explained and she got all pissy and started shoving dishes around in the washes just to fit this dish I had already washed. Then my brother calls me the next day while I'm at work and told me I was being too loud last night. I told him it was your girlfriend, and he said she said it was you! Other things she does is one day I forgot to put away the cereal box after I was done with it bcuz I was running late to work and I have to take the bus. She sends me a picture of it and asks me what's wrong with this picture, I'm like seriously just put it away. She get made when I'm in the kitchen bcuz I "leave crumbs" I always wipe up after myself but whatever so I just basically stay in my room unless I have to get ready for work, I've lost ten pound bcuz I don't like to eat around them bcuz I'm afraid she'll ***** about something. So tonight I went out to the kitchen (she's sleeping) I went to open the fridge and she had cut out an article on house rules when you take family members in about helping to clean taking out the trash keep your space tidy and so on. It really pissed me off bcuz one I pay rent I should be able to at least just take care of me and my stuff not the whole house 2 bcuz she just did that to be a ****** and 3 if they want to charge me rent then they should treat me like a renter and stay out of my room I leave them alone they should leave me alone my brother is always saying how I need to make my bed, I'm like I'm paying rent stay out of my room.

Do wish non-physical harm upon your past "friends" or co-workers?

Its only natural to wish harm on those that harmed you in some way. I had a boss that hated me and was a complete Ahole and used to try anything in his power to fire me so I used to wish harm on him and as a month or 2 go by it turns out he was caught on sexual harrassment charges and his corperate career is over..

Does anyone else here think that pippa's (kate's sister) dress was stunning?

I was taking aback that she wore the same color but so did the flower girls. I guess to blend in? I think pippa looked absolutely beautiful her dress won me over and that's something I'd wear for my wedding.

Why is anti homosexual feeling found so acceptable?

I posted a question recently asking if I could campaign on behalf of homosexuals, and I mentioned my low opinion of those who would dislike\hate homosexuals. One response (and I don't know who he speaks for) told me that my support wouldn't be wanted or welcome because of that fact. I'm actually surprised and taken aback by that point, because I know people (who are homosexuals, and who aren't) who are fantastic people, who REALLY BELIEVE (God how I hate that phrase) in the homosexual cause and would probably side with me. Am I just being insensitive? Or am I right that this is cliquery?

How to attract the GOOD guys...NOT players?

ok there is nothing wrong with dating a lot of guys..but at this point it sounds like you have been diving into relationships and jumping from one to the next..i did that for a while, i understand but eventually when you force yourself to be single you learn so much about yourself and become so independent that you wont need a boy. then at that point when your "ready" the boy comes along when you dont expect it...im sorry no one has worked out but same with me..they (my past 3 exes) and only exes..have not been right for me obviously...haha so wat i am trying to say is you are young you will meet some just have fun for now and focus on yourself and it wont seem like your attracting the same type as you put it. because you are jumping form boy to boy you are not seeking them out for yourself and how you want what you want for YOU. learn what that is and you will find a great guy promise!

Does my crush like me?

I take tutoring. I am really tight with a teacher there and she is really good to me.( not my crush LOL) i first saw my crush in lobby of the tutoring place.. We exchanged looks and smiles but couldn't talk because i was already almost late for class.. I later found out that she was the niece of the teacher i know. The teacher came by to pick me up for church one day and was surprised to see my crush (and teacher's daughter)there waiting. We sat together in the car and we drove off to church.. That's when i knew she was really shy.. I don't think she's normally shy because she one of those girls who like to communicate via facebook texting and whatnot. Also likes to shop :P. So we sit together in the sermon but really don't strike up a conversation. I ask her about what classes he's taking, how long she's been at dallas but she just answers my question with fewest words as possible lol.. After sermon ppl break up into groups where we talk about the sermon. During prayer, she would look up at me and when i saw her, she would twitch her head back down like she never did(so cute ha ha).. The next day, i tell her hi with a smile and she looks as if shes taken aback and quickly says hi back. Yesterday, the teacher's daughter, her guy friend and my crush were supposed to go to a movie together but my crush didn't want to go. I visited their house to borrow Internet and said that i wanted to go and persuaded her to go too, without effort she accepted :) . Te ride there, she was acting even weirder than usual.. She would show everyone pics of food and ask questions like "why are there lines on the road?" lol!! She wouldn't even look at me siring the rode and only look at her phone texting. It seemed like she was suddenly notinterestedd in me, not walking next to me, talking to me or even acknowledging me. because lately she seemed so distant (and also there were others) i couldn't even strike up move. Alright, plus when I chat her up on facebook, she is even more distant and it seems like she wants to end the conversation and seems uninterested. Why do you think she is even more distant in chat? How ask her out? Does she like me? Thanks guys

Why wont my bf give his username and password to Facebook?

Yes you are over reacting. It's not that he is hiding anything from you, it's just that it is his account, and it is his personal belonging.

What does it mean to be 'no part of this world'?

I suspect it means different things to different people. But to me, it means trying to maintain a clean and righteous mind. Avoiding conduct unbecoming to a follower if Christ. Enjoying the God given beauty of nature that is put here for our pleasure. Most of all, feeling the presents of God in our daily lives. Hope that helps.

What should i do with this cake?

To test to see if it is cooked through, poke it with a toothpick, or another slim object, (fork, skewer). If it comes out clean, then it is done. If not, put it back in the oven for a few more minutes.

Computer Nerd guys! What kind of girl do you like?

don't try too hard, it'll show. shop at places like river island and topshop on the internet, i know girls who shop there and they look pretty nice.

If do NOT want premarital s*x, how can I be friends with a woman who might be a wh**e for ministry sake?

make up your mind to obey God & keep yourself clean & let them know.Read Psalms 119 & Ephesians.

Why does my cat always want in my bedroom?

i never had a problem with it until i had my daughter but now she just sneaks in alll the time. and if my daughter is napping in my room like she always does, i can never leave her in there to go do the dishes or do laundry or whatever.. my cat always runs under my bed when i try to kick her out, and just stays under there until i go to sleep. its pretty annoying

Have you ever missed your favourite player so much that.......?

That's fllipin great that is my broth Baz couldn't even manage a sentence let alone a full poem spot on!!

I think I blew it with this girl, what do I do?

you need to giver her space, when guys keep talking to mee and nagging me, im like dude, stop freaking bothering me. so you should give her space and see what will happen

I have a question about my '93 Saturn SL.?

My car was choking up when I went to start it but would start shortly after jumping it so I went to buy a new battery but the same day that I put the battery in it choked up again... Could the problem be my starter or alternator or is there another problem.??

Will you c/c my poem?

I like the turn with words. Used to think I had all the answers when it came to raising kids but they've taught me I'm wrong.

How can I prove to my parents I'm responsible for a PC?

Do things you don't normally do and do them well. Never talk back, listen to them, adhere to rules etc. Even try something such as babysitting to show you ARE responsible.

How to cancel DirecTV on grounds of death and college campus housing?

You signed a contract. If you're too good to fax the death cert you will be charged. I'm sorry for your loss but that is irrelevant to DirecTV.

Sunday, July 17, 2011

Why is that every time you ask a question or answer a question?

That is not complimentary to Muslims you get a violation. But its ok to sl@g off ugly people, four eyed people and one armed ginger spaztiks. No one gives a toss about them. Are they racist on here or what?

Why All ah thinks SL AVE Muslim Women are Betta than a un believing Free woman Quran 2:221?

Its not glorifying slavery but degrading non-muslims, that your beliefs are worst than slaves (except for monotheist and people of the book).There are currently no slaves cause there currently there are no holy wars and islam is established.

Why do guys always do this to me ?

Well usually if I talk to a guy or meet a guy, they are always shy and nice around me. Theyre polite and always stare at me and give excuses to talk to me. Then 2 days later they turn into a**holes and make me do everything for them. Then they start calling me b**** and sl** and w****. Ughhh its really bugging me! Why do they always act like that and make me seem like im their slave or something?

My mouth is chapped and it's itchy?

That really doesn't sound good, sounds like you've been doing bad things with your mouth recently... Mr Snuggles does not like.

What do I do..HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!?

Okay, I'll start with I'm a 13 year old girl. In school everyone hates me but it's for no reason. Everyone just talks about me and are mean to me and I try so hard to not let it get to me but it always does. They always say stuff like I have no friends and im ugly and no one will ever like me(even though I have a boyfriend). It just really hurts because I feel like I've done nothing wrong. Then at home my older sister, mom, and dad basically hate. And no I'm not over reacting they actually say that all the time. They just always yell and curse at me and I try to get out of there way and just stay in my room but they just come to my room and yell. My mom has called me a Wh*re, Sl*t, B*tch what ever you can think of. But I'm not any of those and I just take everything to the heart and it hurts alot. And they say stuff like your so fat so I guess I just freaked out about that and started starving myself for days and making myself throwup. I think they know but they dont care. About six months ago I started to cut myself. And yeah I know it's really wrong and it doesn't help but I didn't stop until about three weeks ago. So then I decided maybe it would make me feel better if I told someone. So I told my mom about a week ago. All she said was don't do it again. And I really, really wanted to help myself so I asked her if I could go to therapy and she no. That I couldn't go becaus therapist dont care about people they just want money then she said that we werent going to talk about this again. So now I'm just lost and don't know what to do. I felt proud for actually wanting help then she just said no. People were all "go tell a couseler" but schools over. I have no one I'm really close to eaither... and yeah I have considered killing myself.

Would you be annoyed if your partner worked late on your bday? ?

He did take me away on the weekend but it's my actual bday during the week and he told me he has to work late till about 8pm because his retail shop is open later that day but I was a bit taken aback as he does have a manager who could do it for him. Am I over reacting?

Who is the best opening batsman ever in test cricket and why?

well out of those 3 sehwag is not only the best but the most entertaining however the best opener in cricket but id say hayden or jayasaria at their peak where better

Unique ideas to serve food in at Minnie mouse themed party?

Does anyone have an idea on how to make a DIY mouse ear dish for serving chips or pretzels maybe even pasta salad? Im having her party at the beach so was going to do beach pails but its kind of mixing 2 themes. The decorations will be baby minnie mouse...just want unique ways to serve the food in ...thanks :)

01 saturn vibration issue?

I have an 01 saturn sl. For a few weeks now if I drive mu car between 50 and 60 mph I feel a bad vibration all over the front of the car and it feels lile its the passenger front. If I stay below 50 or over 60 there is no vibration. I had the tires balanced and rotated and it still happens. The mechanic said I had soft brakes but thats it. Any ideas

Innocent flirting or wildly inappropriate?

Every guy goes through a cougar stage, where they are attracted to older women. Don't know why, I just know. He may be into you. Tell him to back off.

What do you think of politics interfering in to game of cricket?

People say far worse than that,lol. You must remember that each country has it's own culture & all are different.Getting upset on behalf of someone outside your own country doesn't help anyone.

Who on hear wears rubber gloves for washes dishes?

No, by the time you have found them and put them on you could have done the washing up twice over lol xx

Can you order dish on demand movies with the magicjack phone system?

me and my husband are trying to order dish on demand movies off of dish network. we dont have a land line phone except a land line number for our internet. can we use the magicjack phone system to order the movies or do we have to have a land line phone system to be able to do so?

My parents are trying to make me do chores?

Okay not to sound spoiled or nothing but its just me and my brother have never did chores. We are 17 & 16 and they just now give us a chore list. My friends have been doing them since they were little but they expect us to do them now. One said clean the bathroom which I WILL NEVER DO! I vowed to myself years ago that I will never clean a restroom, I will hire someone to do that for me, I am talking about in the future when I have my own place. Then they tell us to wash dishes which I have never done a day in my life. If I end up doing it I will purposely use up all the dish detergent on a plate or something. Its the summer and they never even bought me a birthday or christmas gift and expect me to clean for them. I vacuumed the floor today. They said they will give us 40$ at the end of the week but my parents never have money to give us so whats us think they have $40 to give us just for doing chores. My parents said he not doing it and I am considering but I am only doing the chores I like. We are not rich and our house is trashy looking so its not like weve been spoiled our whole life. They said they will take away my phone, his ps3, and the computer which we dont care. I dont text forreal on my phone and barely use it, I never play the ps3 forreal, and I dont care about the computer. What should we do?

Really can't be bothered with dieting anymore?

Rice isnt bad, and if its bothering you that muxh just try to eat smaller portions of the bad foods with a healthy snack in between.

Does KBS World have english subtitles?

I've been looking into getting Dish TV and there is a package for 20 dollars a month and it includes KBS World. Does KBS world have english subtitles on it's shows? And if so is it set that it is already subbed or do you have to press a button of some sort or tell them while you order it that you would like that? Also does anyone know if this is also available on Direct TV? How do you go about ordering these things? Also does the region you live in affect this? I'm from Texas but I wouldn't think it would affect anything? Also do they show dramas on this channel?

Moving out, how to split final bills w/ roommate?

Amen brother, keep the faith, and let her learn from her mistakes. Quote from Ben Franklin, "A wise man learns from the mistakes of others, a fool from him own." Both of you are in grad school, I hope you are not in medicine, law, or nuclear.

Does anyone actually think Michele Bachmann could be president?

I know there are a lot of crazy people out there who eat up what she is dishing out, but is there any realistic scenario where she is could actually be in a debate with Obama?

How should i respond when a female says...?

u shouldn't of ended it with "I guess u could." girls are just like that we take it very seriously when a guy makes any kind of comment on how we look. u didn't do anything wrong but u have to be more careful on how u word things

Mopping my kitchen floor?

Use washing up liquid and vinegar (plenty of it). Change the water frequently to prevent dirt re spreading..............

Need Girl Help. Really Shy?

I'm in high school and never have had a girlfriend. I have an eye on a girl, but I'm too shy to talk to her. I would say I'm pretty good looking, as it's a family trait, but around girls, especially really pretty ones, I find myself unable to speak. I'm a very passive, easy-going, and not aggressive person. The upside to my personality is I'm a kind, caring person, and my mom says any girl who got to know me would adore me. The downside is, I'm a little introverted and shy. All my friends say to go up and talk, but to tell the truth, I feel as if I'd rather do just about anything else. I got her to dance with me at a high school dance this year, but she seemed taken aback and distant. We never said a word, which was really awkward, but at least I tried for once. The hard part is, we have no classes together, and even when she's at lunch, she's surrounded by her friends and being shy, I'd be terrified to try to talk to her with all them around. Another problem is, I am known for my shy/quietness and any girl would be surprised I would strike up a conversation outside of free time discussion between everyone in class. I play basketball and maybe football, but that really won't help since she doesn't play sports. I really don't know what to do. She is also shy which makes it harder. Apart from being in the same school, I don't even know if we have anything in common. Any help would be appreciated. Thanks and God Bless.

Would you tell the mum her daughter is talking about sex?

My daughter is 7 years old and came home from school the other day and said something really graphic (about mummy sucking daddy's ......) that she said her friend had said. I was really taken aback and shocked by this. I mentioned it to another mum and it turns out her daughter had mentioned something about sex as well that the same girl had told her. My dilemma is; should i mention something to the mum? she is a very nice respectable lady that goes to church and is a health professional. My main worry is that this girl had over heard her parents at it, and that it might be embarrassing, my friend seems concerned though, and i feel that i would want to know if it was my daughter. What would you do?

Men : what is your 'mental stage' regarding womens ability to get sex with bigger, better men easily.?

I can't understand most of what you asked. But I can answer. My 'mental stage' is that there are no better men.

What are your thoughts on a 2011 Nissan Sentra 2.0 SL?

They are good cars, but I think the Honda Civics and Toyota Corollas are superior to the Sentra in every way.

My boyfriend is rich and Im really not. I am very confused about our situation.?

It sounds like the two of you need to communicate and define the relationship. Perhaps he doesn't mine paying but it makes him feel awkward. All of that aside, this and a bizallion other things need to be discussed so both of you know what you are getting into before marriage. I wish you both the best.

THAT B**CH can i sue her???? i'm crying and freezing?

You started the whole problem because of your immaturity. The best thing for you to do is to stop acting like this. Technically, you could sue her for assault for throwing water at you, but the best thing to do is to forget about it and grow up a little and stop acting like a baby.

How much would this car be worth?

I have acquired a 2000 Saturn SL with 80k miles, manual. We were going to resell it for $1000 but when we test drove it, we discovered it has no power steering, it's an economy model so it was built that way. Will someone pay $1000 without power steering? Or should we install power steering for that price?

What do you think about high school drop outs?

Some people are dealt a pretty rough hand, and have to drop out of high school for legitimate reasons. Life's tough for some kids. Other people, like yourself, made their decision based on whatever you were thinking at the time. It's not up to me to say who did it right. It wouldn't have been my personal decision in your case, but hey, who am I to say you're any less of a person for it?

Question about sex and other things?

im 16, ever since i was around 9 ive constantly been horny and started masterbating at that age. when i was around 4 til i was 8 my uncle use to do "sexual" things to me i was always affraid to tell anyone because i thought it was my fault and i was a sl*t, i still havent told because i'm scared? it was a long time ago and i really don't know how to bring it up to anyone.. ever since i was 11 i learned what he did was completely wrong and disgusting so ive kept my distance from him and would never speak to him. i really want to tell someone but how? please help? i never want to visit my grandmother because i cant when hes there... i feel like he took something away i cant get back? and it still effects me til this day..

Do you think that kids who are not taught responsibility can still grow up to be competent adults?

I am noticing a lot that many parents (not all) don't give their children the opportunity to learn responsibility at home. For example, many don't have them do chores such as taking out the trash, washing dishes, walking/feeding the dog, making your own bed, earning allowance, etc. Instead, these things are replaced by TV, video games, and almost nothing else. Can a kid who lives a life with duties and responsibilities except watching TV and playing video games still grow up to be a competent, responsible adult?

Saturday, July 16, 2011

How to get grease out of dryer?

help-my daughter washed her boyfriend's grease work clothes and then dried them in the dryer-now my dryer is covered with set in grease-the whole inside is black grease-ive used magic eraser.dish soap.fantastic and ivory soap but no go-it just happened-any suggestions i will try .it is a fairly new dryer only 10 months.i need help

Why does a rabbit stand in there food?

I've had my Minnie Lop eared rabbit for about 1 1/2 months. I have a Male and a female and they're both sweet. But for some reason they always stand in their food and knock the dish over! I've asked some people on why they do this, but they also have no answer to this. Or, my bun-bun's will grab their food dish with their teeth and pull it and knock it over. When they do spill out their food, should I also refill, or should I not since would that be a waist of rabbit pellets? Please help!

Help with my novel? Conveying a mental breakdown/anger?

I think that in context it will be really powerful. Especially if we come to know the character and he is relatable. I think that many people have been in this state and the way you've written it takes the reader to a time where they've felt such frustration.

Husband over possessive?

I was a person who was always considered ugly because of my weight issues all my life. I was teased and mocked at. So I was always one of those who was not considered nearly beautiful even though I have a beautiful face and heart! So now fast forward to 2011! I am happily married and have 1 baby girl who is 1.5 years old now. I recently lost like 55 pounds and look good with a lot slimmer body! Yup I worked my *** off for close to 12 months to get where I am now. Now I suddenly am overwhelmed by all the external attention and feel more confident. The problem is I might have turned into a little attention seeking woman!! lol I dont dress like a sl** but I do wear clothes that are SLIGHTLY revealing and a little tight. But my husband has suddenly started demeaning me for looking a little sexy! for a change!! .... I am never ever going to cheat on him, nor do I ever give any leads to other guys who tend to notice me!!! Am I wrong! Should I stop dressing the way I am dressing now for my husband?? please any opinions!

Would someone overdose if?

they took 9 Tylenol Simply Sleep pills? there light blue and rectangular with SL on them. im just asking im not going to im just curious :b if so what would happen

What's wrong with my science experiment?

If you used freshly made chicken broth, which had just been cooked on the stove, there were probably no living bacteria in it. They were all killed by the cooking. What you do is first make the agar by boiling the powder in water. You don't want any living bacteria to be in that. Pour it into the petri dish, cover it and allow it to gel (this will happen faster in the refrigerator, just like making Jello). Then you want to put some live bacteria onto the gelled agar. As I said, freshly cooked broth is not a good source of live bacteria. You can touch the agar with your fingers, or use a cotton swab (Q-tip) to wipe various areas like the sink drain, the bathroom floor, the inside of your mouth - areas where you know there are live bacteria. Then gently wipe the swab across the surface of the agar, cover the dish, and keep it in a warm dark place. You should have colonies of bacteria and fungi growing within 24 hours.

I like an older man I work with, mixed signals...?

A 50 year old player? Honey, you are 20 something. You can do better. Go out and have fun with guys your age. I'm 25 and my friends made fun of me for going out with an 'old' dude who was 35. (Eh, he was nice. But too old. Had to move on. Plus younger guys have WAY nicer bodies.) Just imagine the crap you'll get from your friends for going after an old dude with two girlfriends. Find someone young and hot. :)

Top 3 ODI teams, SL ,IND & Aus to play a tri-series in Australia ? What are your thoughts ?

Excellent, this will hopefully silence at least some of the biased, ignorant fans from certain parts of the world who claim India bought the no.1 test ranking, the world cup and that their team must be no.1. It will be interesting to see what excuses they come up with this time, I think both India and Sri Lanka are more likely to win it than Australia.

My parents wont let me hang out with my friends and...?

Well.. ask honestly in the most polite way to him to stop asking about that girl.. you get alot frustrated by answering such questions everytime.. be polite.. tell him you dont mean to be rude..but its just freaking you out.. since he's smart i guess he'll understand..

How do i remove one of those big old school satellite dishes from my yard?

is there a cement block i have to remove or should i just dig around and cut it from under ground and cut the wires and how will i know if the wires have an eletrical current

Help with my novel? Conveying a mental breakdown/anger?

u could have him throw stuff around maybe? like brekaing dishes turning over tables...punching the wall stuff like that maybe

On progression in lifting, should I add 5 lbs or 10 lbs per week (workout)?

5x5. I was doing SL 5x5 but I am now considering "Faleev’s 80/20 Routine" which is the same, but has a different split and adds 10 lbs per week (heavy workout day) rather than just 5 lbs per workout (3x a week on SL)

Advice needed (My Mom)?

I left home when I was 17, because my mom use to abuse me for just leaving dishes in the sink. I had to wear clothes twice my size or I would get punched she use to tell me she never wanted me so I got tired of it and left to a different city with someone.I'm 22 now and I just had a son and now with an amazing man .The thing is when I use to date my mom would ask my bfs for money or me and I would always give it to her,I even owe the IRS because of her and she yelled at me cause I couldn't give her the rest of the money.Well,on Mothers day my bf took me to a nice hotel .He told my mom he was going to take her out to eat but my mom wanted him to take my 5 siblings too so he said i'll see if he had enough.He tried to explain we only had enough to take her she went off calling me selfish ,"she wish she never had me" start hitting my boyfriend while he was holding my son..and kick us out of her house mind you we live 50 mins away from her but shes still calls me names tells me im selfish and I try to do everything for her ,like i dont have a license and she wanted my bf who was at work to come take her to the hospital when i told her we cant she just went off on me ..I still say yes ma'am to her my sisters who are 16 and 17 they have it easy I never heard her once say anything mean to them they wear tight clothes they bearly listen to her ,my 5 sibs have the same dad I'm from a different father but now her birthday is tomorrow shes like" Give me a gift i want something from you and him I deserve it since your so selfish ",she wasn't even saying it nice! I bearly work ,my bf pays all the bills plus we have a son and she calls me selfish all I do is give her respect and she goes and talk bad about me to me lil sisters and i hate that ....it hurts so much and I tried talking to her she feel sorry for a little but then the next day she yells at me and now Im grown all I ever do is try to please her. I don't want to do things for her just 'cause I don't want her to be mad at me I want to do it because shes my mom and i want to..I think she feels like just 'cause shes my mom I have to give her respect .When I try talking to her about it she says its 'cause I left home that's why shes that way but she was that way before! dont know what to do I want to keep are relationship but shes caused me stress when i was pregnant,and before that ! I mean im shock my bf still with me...she treats me like a little kid,she doesn't even do that to my sisters....and there kids but like i said i never talk back to her I give her respect no matter what but Im getting tired of getting treated this way when I love her so much .She tries to be nice some times so I would bring my son over her house but then she goes back mean ...Idk Im stressing to much

Which workout should I do? Madcow or SL 5x5?

I'm trying to decide between these two workouts. I weigh 200 lbs, squat 275, bench 210, and deadlift 275. My goal is to squat 405, bench 315, and deadlift 500 one day. Which one is best for me?

Do you think these hotties are still hot without makeup?

OMG, that's Kim Kardashian. Eww she is ugly. Megan Fox looks prettier then the A girl, followed by the hag Kim, who is a *****.

When will they start listening?

I don't know exactly how you feel, but I'm pretty much in the same spot. I had 4 kids in 5 years and all of them are big trouble makers. My husband is in the army and hasn't been here for the last nine months. My kids are now 7,5,3,2. It seems that they start being a little better behaved around four years old but starts to get a lot better by five. I still have some issues with behavior though, it feels like they run circles around me sometimes. The key is consistent discipline while they are younger, even if you have to stop what you are doing, or leave a store to accomplish it. When they get older you have heart felt discussions about how their behavior effects you. They will get to the point where they empathize and want to help. My oldest will say, "Mom I know the girls are being bad and you are getting frustrated, what do you want me to do to help?" She is such a sweetheart now, but it is due to the fact that she has learned I don't put up with her crap, and many heart to heart talks. She used to be the worst of all. Oh the stories I could tell. I know it seems sometimes like there is no light at the end of the tunnel when it is 24/7. Keep your head up and fight the good fight. It'll be worth it. Another tip I have is get them involved in the cleaning up. I tell my kids if they can't behave they must need a chore to keep them busy. Even the little ones like taking a wet rag and wiping down the walls. I know yours are still little but they can do something to help mama out. Also I would like to add that they are not too young for discipline. I always start my kids when they are 18 months to two years old. The older they are the harder they are to fight. Let them know who is in charge.

Help with my girlfriend?

If i did that to my bf he would of left me you shouldn't hang out with ex especially when you are dating someone. she does sound like she loves you and wants to be with you. so maybe you should just trust her. let her know how it made you feel and hopefully she wont do it again .

Need Some Tips On Cleaning/Reorganizing Someone Else's Home?

If I was you I would just stack things where they are in a very neat way. Like if you have 4 shampoo bottles on the bathroom counter I would scoot them all towards the back of the counter and put them in order from shortest to tallest. Then I would clean all the counter tops. If there are things on the ground I would put them in a place where you know she wouldn'tt mind them being. If it is going to be junky and cluttered at least it will be an organized clutter...

Why is it so hard to find a job?

no matter how hard I try I cant find a job. I have applied like 30 different places and nothing. I have applied at target budweys wegmens tops subway burger king McDonald's block buster petsmart denneys sears searshardware dariyqueen dashes wilson farms about 3 pizza places about 5 resturants as a dish washer 7/11 another gasstation delta sonic gamestop star bucks kfc arbies wendeys walmart a lot of jobs at the mall and yes this sounds f u c k ing crazy but it is true. the world sucks I cant even find a job as a dishwasher any where. tops called me for a interview and I had graduation and she said they would call back nexted week, but never did this sucks I have a car I have to pay for that I will have to cancle insurance on now f u c k americas s h i tty economy and f u c k god. Im gglad I dont have to help support my family as some kids have to do with a s h i tty job like that because if I did that would probally starve

Does he like me and is my friend jealous? Easy 10 points!?

Straight up, He obviously likes you, or finds you attractive and cool at least. Hes been in this relationship for so long that hes probably lost attraction or got bored of her, or maybe hes just lost feelings because it was all lust and no love. Whatever the case is he likes you and he would date you if he could find a way out of the relationship and knew you would date him, trust me on it i'm a guy. xD About your friend she probably is jealous or possibly just doesn't like the guy so tries to make him sound bad. Whatever the case if your friend says kill yourself, do you? No you live. So don't let how she feels bother your own choices, always go with YOUR instinct not others. :)

What to do? What to do? Help?

Give them a 30 day notice, a legal one. It will still be hard for you to get them out if they are there longer than 30 days. I'd speak to a lawyer of the cops about the process and what if they are not out. I'd ask if you can shut off their lights, or something if they are there beyond 30 days. I'd ask if you can charge them rent suddenly and how to do it.

I'm confused, what should I believe? (Christians/Jehovah's Witnesses/everyone else)?

You should belief whatever makes the most sense to you and gives you emotional and spiritual comfort.

Friday, July 15, 2011

Why won't my computer let me play Second Life?

are you using Avira Antivirus Webguard? It will block Second Life. Also need Flash and Quicktime for Second Life. If you do have flash and quicktime installed make sure they are updated.

What are some easy to make throw-together vegetable/fruit focused main dishes (examples below)?

A stir-fry. You need a pan, oil, and random vegetables (whatever is in your fridge). Seasoning is nice too. If you have meat, add meat, but cook the meat first then add vegetables or cook them separately than combine them.

How Do I Convince My Mum...?

Its not like your friend is influencing you to do it with her. I see it this way, if she is coming, then just tell her she will have to go sober for your trip or shes not going. Once you get this to happen inform your mom and see if she might change her mind.

Neglecting boyfriend?

Even though Ash may sound like the better man, it would hurt your boyfriend if you broke up with him and got with Ash. I'm sure your boyfriend loves you with all his heart, but just can't find the time to say it. Maybe after he gets home from work he's just tired and wants to go to bed. If you don't want to be with Ash, you could tell him that you appreciate his flattery over you, but you don't want to hurt your boyfriend by getting with him. If Ash was really the better man then he'd understand and accept just being friends. Good luck!

My sister is a sl*t, what should i do?

Maybe you could suggest that your mother bring your sister to a therapist, because you think your sister has been acting really strange lately. Then you can talk to the therapist about her actions.

Guy with an embarrassing sex problem?

I am 37 and my girl is 23, she is incredibly beautiful! (who knows what she sees in me) And she's the sweetest. She decided she was ready to have sex with me a few weeks ago, but it didn't exactly go to plan. I started taking off her clothes, and when she was just in her underwear, I felt myself getting hard. She unbuckles my belt and we got my trousers off, and then I started on her bra. Well as soon as I'd unclipped her bra and her breasts fell out I *came* immediately......... That has never ever happened to me before, I was just taken aback by her beauty. After I had recovered, we started again and while we still on foreplay it happened again. We decided to leave it for the night and come back to it later, because it was obviously not the right time! She was actually very sweet about it. But I'm absolutely scared to death about it happening again because I'm embarrassed about this. How can I stop myself from coming, without actually avoiding looking at her face or body of course! Don't tell me to get a less hot girlfriend because she's amazing - I mean she made me come twice just by looking at her, she is amazing. But I need to be able to satisfy her and not just myself, or she's gonna leave. Thanks guys, appreciate the help. Please don't be too harsh... ha

Should I call or text her?

ya you should. you may also be putting to much time between txt and she may think u dont want to talk to her

2004 Nissan Altima 2.5 SL, is it possible to replace stock fog light bulbs?

I already have the stock fog lights I just want to replace the bulbs in them, is it possible? if so, what site can I get cheap blue ones off of?

Would you ride this rollercoaster?

ya but i would hate it just a little bit cuz of the ***** on the front of it but other then ya i would LOVE it it looks so fun!!!!

What's the difference between these two girls?

People probably assume that Girl 2 has slept with several guys because of her partying ways so they give her less respect because they think she's "easy." Also, if she shows off her body with the clothes she wears, people can also take that as a sign of being "loose." Where as Girl 1 doesn't seem like that so they don't think of her as someone who sleeps around. So yeah, it's basically just assumptions and judgments about both girls.

Can't stop eating...need help with food addiction?

swithc out the good food with bad food. like celery. seriously. then constantl y chew gum when your not eating and drink lots of water. gum is around 3 calories and in 1 hour u burned like 60. so yup.

My sister is a sl*t and a liar?

ok so me, my parents, and my sister moved to a country and my mom doesn't have a job yet and my dad is in the country where we came from and he's working there to support our family while my sister asks my mom for money and say that she needs it for something else like "my friends owe me money" when the truth is she's going to stranger's houses that she met online in this dating site called "questchat.com" and sleep with them and goes back home at 1 in the morning... she's 18 years old and doesn't have a job and isn't married yet... .... she always asks money and now we're having a big loss of money.... i want to tell my mom the truth but i'm afraid that my sister is going to kill her self or runaway and i don't want this to happen even though she's 18 years old (she already had runaway before and tried to kill her self; jumping off a building and such).... what can my mom do about it and how do i tell her? my sister has an anxiety/depression disease and if i tell my mom that she is being a sl*t, i don't know what my mom will do to her... at the same time, i want my sister to get caught and i don't wanna see her cry too....

How do i get my brother to be a better person?

My Brother is 30 years old he has a 6 year old son and he is very very very immature, he makes stupid comments and swears constantly. I can't stand him. he doesnt make his son clean up his messes and sais he doesn't have to help to anything. I hate how he acts. I can't stand it. I live with my dad but I want to move so bad, My brother lives here too me and my bf have to do everything we have to clean and do laundry and the dishes. My brother doesnt do anything hes always at the neighbors and he lets his son control him. I have a 1 year old and he even yells at him and sometimes swears at him and he swears infront of him. He acts like he has to do everything but he is so lazy. I can not stand it im about ready to flip out. I hate him and I wish I had a normal brother. What can i do about this, My dads not home during the week so he doesnt know how he acts and he doesnt really car my brother is an asshole and needs to be more responsible i cant even stand being in the same room as him.

If I were to kiss her, would she likely return it?

No don't do it. Why do you think that it is okay to kiss someone else's girlfriend. You need to find a new gym altogether.

My boyfriend wants to makeout while having me sit on his lap. helppp?

i dont know if i want to makeout while sitting on his lap because i dont want to seem like a sl**. we just started dating and stuff and i personally think we are too young to be making out (we are both 13). I mean i dont have and issue with kissing or anything because i mean that is so bad. But making out WHILE sitting on his lap (in the movies) i dont know about that. :( i already told him i dont want to makeout because i think we should take it slow and all but then somehow he convinced me into doing this. Now, i seriously dont know how to tell him NO again without seeming mean or making him upset. Yes i do know what you are going to say, "if he really was the right guy for you, he wouldnt rush you into making out." but i really like this guy and he already told me he loved me? i dont know!! i dont want to seem like a sl** if it gets out we were making out. I mean lots of other kids makeout but i dont know.. help what should i tell him!? thanks and please no mean comments! thank you (:

Exactly what did God get out of having a ram sacrificed to Him anyway?

God told the Israelites that by means of animal sacrifices offered to him, they could acknowledge the need to have their sins covered. (Leviticus 4:4-7, 13-18, 22-30) Granted, that was what God asked of them back then, not what he asks of true worshipers today.

Will taking two languages in college be challenging?

Taking both at once = burnout. It's a good idea, in college, to make sure that all the courses you're taking simultaneously are very different from each other. A science course + a humanities is a better idea than two of the same, it keeps you interested and helps you avoid getting "sick of school".

How to put image in mp3 songs file?

if urs hanset suport dis,go 2da music player n chose any song witot playin it n aftr dat pres da option key n wen u scrol dwn u'l c album art,click dat n aftr dat pres da change image n select frm urs image n ur dun,manish!!

Whats the hardest thing about being veg*n?

For me its when people are eating meat and I'm just eating chips or other sides.. I hate eating side dishes cuz then it feels like I'm eating less.

What guy should I pick?

Okay. Well, I'm a 14 year old girl and I like two guys that have both made it clear they like me. I'm the farthest thing from a sl*t, trust me. I think we all get into these situations once in our life. But one of the guy's name is Alex and he doesn't really talk much but I really like how chill he is and we just really have a good time together. Oh, and we're closer the the same age so my parents would like him. And, the other boy's Brandon and he literally knows exactly what to say, he makes me happy. But he's known as a player and i'm just worried the stuff he says to me is also being said to ten other girls. And, he's a little bit older. I like Brandon and Alex equally, just in different ways and I have no idea who I should choose. I have a great time with both guys. If you were me, who would you choose? Please help.

Why is my mom so mean for no reason?

She calls me dumb and annoying. Like if I am doing chores( which I do voluntarily with no reminders or rewards) and i don't know where something goes she says I am just dumb and will never be able to function in th real world etc etc. She does buy me stuff I want, but I don't really ask for much. When I was little and I would get a large amount of money and put it somewhere safe she would almost always come and take it when I was at school without even asking me. She would always say she needed it to pay bills or pay for a camp I was doing. After a while of her doing this I started to get annoyed and would tell her that she needed to ask for it and that she shouldn't take my money and she called me a spoiled brat. she doesn't take the money I earn though from working and babysitting though. I take care of the family cat, i wash dishes, and i clean when stuff needs it. The only thing i don't do is laundry and cooking. Still, my mom calls me a lazy pig. I think she is angry because she has this hormonal disorder. I can see how she would feel depressed about having it, but does she have to take it out on me? Is it normal for a mom to act this way?

I was nearly convinced he liked me..? 10 points best answer!!?

I would say he probably is worried he's going to get hurt again. Another big reason might be that he likes you and you setting him up with someone implies that you don't feel the same. So he tries to make it seem like he doesn't like you to make himself feel better about the situation.

How should I handle this? I feel like ill regret either decision I make :(?

I believe you should never be too scared too talk too someone. And it sounds like you are with this girl.. Shyness, usually doesn't get you anywhere in a friendship or relationship. Honestly your question made some sense. But im only 16 and didn't really understand the bottom! But if you want my advise, sometimes you gotta bug someone too show them your interested. Cus if you keep a distance real feelings may never come out. So talk too her more, call and text her more. I recommend before calling too text and ask if she's busy. Never just automatically call someone, especially if there busy. That usually sends a bad vibe through eachother. But it sounds like with the more i read your question. She's losing interest.. So i think you should talk to her more, make her smile and etc.. Cus it's never too much if you can make her smile. :)

My boyfriend is rich and Im really not. I am very confused about our situation.?

Yes, tell him the truth, don't put pressure on your parents either, i mean if they put the money together cause they gotta pay for your their yr at the uni then you should understand....also why don't you get a job, it would help a lot.

Is it customary to have food at a bridal shower and should men be present?

I came away from my cousin's bridal shower perplexed. I always thought some food was part of the celebration. I don't mean it had to be a 10-course meal, maybe just some cake and coffee would be provided for the invitees and maybe even some party games. All she did was open her gifts and cards and thank everyone for coming and that was the end of the shower. Also, her fiance and some of his friends and relatives were present, which took me aback somewhat. The other attendees seemed to take that in stride. Is this sound like a customary bridal shower (in USA)?

3 year old child keeps crying in sleep?

It's 3:30 in the morning and I am sitting here in tears. I am listening to my 3 year old cry every 5 mins in her sleep. She doesn't have a fever. She has autisum and doesn't talk yet so she can't tell me what's wrong. I am trying to figure out what's wrong. Lately she has been really chewing on things and putting things in her mouth. My husband says she will probably be sick cause this morning she put the scrub brush for dishes in her mouth. I am worried it's something else. Could she have cavities? She refuses to let me look into her mouth. She is strong and she fights and bites. I want to take her to the dentist but the insurance company has the family with one who doesn't accept patients younger than four. I am so worried that she does. I brush her teeth everyday. Like I said there is no fever so I am pretty sure she is not sick. She is not acting like she did a few weeks ago when she had tonsilitis and than an ear infection. I feel like the worse mother on earth cause I can't figure out what could be wrong.

Trouble with sis in law.?

Hello all. Am currently married and just found out that I'm pregnant about 2 months plus. My husband and I decided not to inform anyone yet until a trip to the gynae. After that, we decided to share the good news with our folks, and since i was close to my brother, to let him and his wife know as well. His wife and I've had problems before. I have never met anyone like her, and the issues she comes up with are mind boggling, tho time and time again, I told myself to not get carried away with petty issues and be the bigger person. For a year now, we been getting along and I thank god there hasn't been any problems, for if there were, the whole family will be in turmoil. Anyway, after calling her up & telling her, her response was curt and odd, and she ended the conversation with a "congrats" and hung up. Now, I was a bit taken aback. It wasn't like her at all. But I thought perhaps she was busy. Yesterday, she called me up, cold and formal, and said "I'm calling you because your mum asked me to call you and ask how you're doing". I tried to sound friendly and unaffected, but worry was churning in my stomach like butter. I have no clue why she's acting like this, when i text-ed her to ask, she replied : "I will be as transparent and open to you as you are to me. Look after yourself and the baby." Someone, please, what did I do wrong now? Nothing i do is ever right. She always wants to play the big sister role, expecting me to tell her everything. Was she expecting me to tell her before I told my husband?? Was she expecting me to run to her for everything related to pregnancy since she had a child first? And after our last conversation, I don't even feel like going over. I'm utterly lost and confused. My husband doesn't know whats going on, he can't stand to see me bullied. I just want everyone to be happy.

Atheists, I need help with a rebuttal for a statement?

I was talking to one guy after saying how imperfect the world is... And he said, "god made a perfect world. He also gave man free will. All the bad stuff isn't his fault. It is man's. ". That totally took me aback, I've never had a good response. What can I say that will support atheism? Nothing degrading about Christians, I dont want to offend him.

Men : what is your 'mental stage' regarding womens ability to get sex with bigger, better men easily?

5) Women who sleep around are saints worthy of our praise because only a selfless person would risk the complete destruction of a baby in pursuit of physical gratification.

Please please tell me how can I control my older sister's temper?

stand up to her. calmly tell her it is none of her business what you do. u asked and got permission so that is the end of the discussion and tune her out. tell her she is not your mother and she doesn't need to scream at you u r not deaf and can plainly hear her in normal tones. keep telling her to control herself and her temper. stay calm. if dad is near by ask him to come into the room that u can't calm your sister down and let him handle it. as for her room and her messes just keep pointing out she is no better at cleaning or whatever but above all else stay calm the louder she gets the quieter u need to be. remember u can not control her or anything she does. she has to want to control herself. throw things at her like how do u ever expect to find a husband screeching like that? don't change her words, give them back to her. make them her fault. your room is a mess = yours is no better. did u wreck the hard drive = u lost the usb cord. change your temper patterns. let her worry about hers. when she sees she can't ruffle u and get a fight she will stop trying. it will take a while but it will teach u how to handle yourself outside in the real world when u r ready for a job and a future.

Would you tell the mum her daughter is talking about sex?

My daughter is 7 years old and came home from school the other day and said something really graphic (about mummy sucking daddy's ......) that she said her friend had said. I was really taken aback and shocked by this. I mentioned it to another mum and it turns out her daughter had mentioned something about sex as well that the same girl had told her. My dilemma is; should i mention something to the mum? she is a very nice respectable lady that goes to church and is a health professional. My main worry is that this girl had over heard her parents at it, and that it might be embarrassing, my friend seems concerned though, and i feel that i would want to know if it was my daughter. What would you do?

What does he mean by this comment?

So I ended my involvement with a guy 3 years ago and never really thought too much about him again on account he was a real asshole.As time wore on I forgave him and myself for what happened between us but left it alone. I recently became facebook friends with one of his best friends and the guy's pic popped up on the "people you may know" section. I was kind of taken aback but decided to see if he'd respond to my request. If he didn't,no big deal. But he did! And he posted on my wall with just "Wow...." And that was it. Yet we're still friends on FB. I don't get it...can someone help me out?

Did/does this woman want to kiss me?

Slow down maybe you misinterpret her body language but i think she likes you and want to kiss you ;-). In my experience i have a gal friend she's very sweet friend and kind, but whenever we have a conversations it always bothered me because she look at me with sexy eyes looks and then looking to my lips then she will do like biting her lip a little something like that. At first i wonder why she's like that on me and it's kinda weird then after couple of months she confess to me that she is bisexual and have a crush on me.

I have 8 hearts for chase in harvest moon tree of tranquility why wont he accept my blue feather?

i recently finished the 30 dishes for chase and i also have 8 hearts i go up to him the next day to give him the blue feather his words "oh...a blue feather. i thought if u did all 5 events and have 8 hearts he can take the feather and marry me is there anything that i am missing? if anyone know please tell me!

Should I tell them off once and for all?!?

I dislike my in-laws!!! Very much!!! They claim to want to dish out advice, and help me with my husband's craziness but then they turn it all around and demand that he shows up at their house at night, ALONE so they can "get the other side of the story" and then proceed to bash our marriage and me. And tell him how I don't care for him, etc. I won't tolerate it anymore and have blocked their texts and phone calls on my line. Should I tell them that I am done and have washed my hands forever of them and blocked their texts/calls or should I have them guess? My husband is angry that I did it, but his line is untouched so he can still talk to the looney birds. I want NO relationship with these people. How can I let them know I won't tolerate their behavior anymore?